"I had six long years of being single in my 20s. Looking back, I realise I learnt some really valuable lessons."
As most of you know, the only stuff I blog that isn’t my own creation are quotes and pictures. Never an article about dating that isn’t my own. But I read this, and it is the most accurate article I have read (to date) about the single world.
Most importantly, the guys is on the same page as me…casual sex is not appealing and if there is one thing I want to leave from this blog is that it is not necessary to have a lot of sex, or to find casual sex appealing.
Its not always love that makes you do crazy things
It is the pursuit of love that makes us crazy.
We will do anything if it means we might get that shot at love, and I think we should stop seeing that as a negative and starting congratulating ourselves for taking a chance
My magic watch says you don’t have any underwear on.
Oh, you do?
It must be 15 minutes fast.
Wow, what a holiday season it has been! But I am back and ready to answer your questions, give you advice, dating lessons and some funny pick up lines on the way.
Holidays are generally a pretty lonely season. We’re surrounded by over the top displays of affection and romance as we hear about everyones romantic holidays, grand gesture of love and gift giving.
One year for Christmas I got the worst present ever: I got dumped on Christmas day. Yep, no lie. Via text message after spending it with his family.
But don’t let that get you down, spend the time following the rules of Love Actually find your love, tell them you love them no matter what. Everyone needs an excuse once a year to go out on a limb and tell the person they love how they feel.
Even if it doesn’t work out, at least everyone has surrounded themselves with love.
Talkity talk ‘bout it.
Probably an invitation otherwise she’s being a bitch. I know, some girls will hate me for saying that but you don’t do that if you don’t want something to happen. If there is no other option, she should make it very clear to you NOTHING is going to happen. Make sense?
Be yourself! The families will sense falsity like a dog sense fear, and DO NOT FORGET YOUR MANNERS. Who doesn’t instantly like a person more because of their manners? You’ll be fine, I mean he likes you, and the family would naturally be like him so they’ll like you too. And if you’re making him happy, they’ll be happy with that (generally speaking thats what happens)
Good luck. x
STORY OF MY LIFE
I USED to be a pretty socially awkward person, oh who am I kidding….I still am. But I used to be worse, and would never talk to someone. And then I realised this crazy thing, you can have normal conversations with people from the sex you’re attracted to, without them thinking you’re hitting on them but think that you’re actually having a normal conversation because you’re people and thats what people do.
Totally crazy thought right? So thats what I would do, find some commonality between us and start up a conversation when the time was right.
"Oh hey you’re in my science class, how are you finding the homework?" Boom, theres your conversation. Baby steps.
It sucks being an introvert, asking us to start a conversation is like asking someone to jump off a cliff. But we can be an introvert and come across as an extrovert, you just gotta try and push your boundaries.
Good luck <3
Jumping into bed is the WORST way to keep a guy. Coz they think they like you, they’re all attracted to you, then they have sex with you and really….they’ve gotten what they wanted. Everyone is always after sex, thats the ugly truth.
Just play it cool, and keep it the same as possible. Try altering your dynamics by asking him to hang out. But don’t you know, smother him. Boys are weird like that, you can’t be all over them after having sex with them. He might think you’re all clingy and shit.
Good luck :)
Go for it! Invite him for coffee, at least you guys are friend and stuff so thats pretty awesome. Just remember: long distance relationships SUCK. So take things slow if he does like you back, otherwise you can’t help how you feel.
A friend once told me if you have even a chance at love, go get it! Probably some of the best advice I have ever gotten.
Good luck xx
My apologise for the lack of responses to messages or posting of new material. My laptop broke, my phone broke and the general stress of holidays has meant I went a little AWOL. I will be back in action shortly, more so when my laptop is up and running.
Sorry my loverly followers. You guys are totally rad for following my blog, asking questions and reblogging or even liking my stuff. This blog is now two years old (yayy!!) and I couldn’t have done it without you guys <3