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In regards to your slut post I was just wondering your opinion on a girl who sleeps with a guy twice (maybe more) knowing very well that he has a girlfriend and then they tried to justify their actions by saying that nobody thinks the guy and the gf should be together because nobody thinks he’s happy with her!

Cheating is a never a good idea, and there is never a good justification. 

People get caught up in the moment, and make mistakes, and we shouldn’t judge people on those grounds. Instead we should encourage them think about the reasons they have made such mistakes. 

My slut post was in jest, and was not to be taken seriously. I would like to stress the point that we should not label people as sluts. I think its an outdated concept and we shouldn’t judge and reprimand people for their lifestyle choices. I do not think that a persons actions are always indicative of their lack of self respect or sexual promiscuity. 

Anonymous
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My ex is complicated. he hides all his feelibgs. I still love him. I never know how he feels, he keeps it all in, then explodes. I care for him and need to talk to him. Ive written a simple message there is no other way to talk to him, do i send it?

If he is your ex, isn’t there a reason you guys are broken up?

But sure, just tell him and leave it. I mean, he may hide his feelings but if he knew how you felt then that takes out the element of fear of rejection

Good luck xx

Anonymous
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So there's this guy who asked me out and told me how much he liked me. I decided to give him a try since I liked him too. The thing is he told me through fb and I told him if we could talk in person (we go to the same school) it would be great. However, he said,”catch me though I might forget." It just sounded mean to me? You might "forget" that we were going to talk about this in person? Maybe I'm taking this too seriously? Either way the comment made me very upset. What do you think?

Screw that dude, how can he “forget” to talk about his developing feelings for you. In high school that consumes your brain, he’s most definitely using it to cover up the fact he has no balls to talk to you in person about it so he is getting you to do all the initiating. 

So really, you’ve got to decide if you’re cool with that or if you want to make him chase you.

Good luck xx

Slut Guide 101

Consider this a introductory guide on the essential terms for a slut in training. These positions are native to the classic whorebag and have been passed down from generation to generation. All positions are 100% tried and tested, guaranteeing to give you trashy status after three (3) positions have been executed. 

Spit Roast - the classic two guys one girl

Bathroom Stall Smash and Dash - can’t wait to get home? Don’t want to take them home? Find your nearest, cleanest, emptiest bathroom stall and go at it like monkeys on heat

Alley Way Lay - similar to the Bathroom Stall Smash and Dash except in your favourite alley way. Its spices things up with the risk of an audience

Alley Way Pray - get down on your knees and get to work ladies!

Red Trash Door Knock Appeal - allow yourself to be passed around like a bong. Once finishing your duties with one suitor, go straight to the next contenders house. 

Dark Corner Dance Floor - because sometimes all you need is two fingers and a crowd

Clown Car - try to cater as many men at the same time. 

Niagara Falls - let the white wash cover your face.

Down Hill Skier - individual shafts for each hand

….and that concludes our first lesson

Seedy Pick Up Line #14

I must be a miner, because I’ve found myself a gem

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do you have any suggestions on how to make cutting ties easier? i spent 2 years talking to this guy every day and its hard to one day just stop.

Cold turkey. It sucks a bit and you have to distract yourself heaps but after months (yeah, months) you just wont even think about it. 

Anonymous
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Do you have any tips on how to make your partner more open about his feelings or thoughts. I feel as though my partner is very closed off and I don't know what he's feeling or thinking a lot of the times, where as I'm a very open person and like to talk about my feelings but I feel like I can't with him because he's so closed off. Please help :/

Unfortunately you can’t change someone. Don’t press the issue but make sure they know when they want to talk, you’re there for them. Which I am sure he knows :)

But maybe you could have a heart to heart and try and compromise? See if there is a way for to show you how he feels? You sound like me, I am the same, I never bloody shut up when I have a problem I am so open about my issues. So I always feel like I need something similar in return to validate feelings, whether that be of love or that they are happy. 

So maybe there is a way he can show that for you, without opening up. Coz he may just be someone who doesn’t open up. Most boys are. They’re frustrating like that

Good luck!

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please find me a girlfriend or a wife , for free.

Pretty sure the dates/ engagement/ wedding aren’t free. Even if you go Dutch. Hate to disappoint! 

Good luck :D

Anonymous
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My current bf's ex was very important to him, and I understand that. I know he loves me, but I get jealous sometimes. (The ex and I look similar even.) I want to be different than her, so i even dyed my hair. Although he is romantic with me, I've noticed that he used to do grand romantic gestures for her (like asked her to prom in hs), while i'm sitting here and he really doesn't do much... is it bad to want these gestures? how do i stop being so jealous? i'm falling apart. i don't wanna be her.

The only person who will think of her as you, is him….and that would only be the case if he was trying to replace her with you. In which he probably would over compensate. You probably just look alike because he has a pretty obvious type. You’re not her, and in his eyes he probably things you’re way cooler!

Good luck x

Anonymous
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I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. We get on so well, I go to his house 2-3times a week. We've had sex and it's great. The only thing is, he got out of a long term relationship about 5 months ago. We've talked about it a lot, I know all the details. However, he's told me he isn't ready for a relationship as of yet. I have some strong feelings for him, so am worried I'm just going to get hurt. Do you have any advice on what I should do? (continue with it or break it off?) Thanks x

Give it time. He may just need to take it slow, especially if he was the one hurt he is going to be scared the same thing is happening. If you want to, give it time. But also just don’t put all your eggs in the basket. Stay in a position where if you’re getting dicked around you can noticed it and do whats right for you.

Good luck :)

Anonymous
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How are you supposed to feel after three months of dating someone. Like how are you meant to be or what are you meant to feel towards them?

How DO you feel about them? If something doesn’t feel right, its probably because it isn’t 

Good luck xx

Anonymous
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My ex bf broke up with me 2 months ago. He said that he was really stressed out and didn't think he was ready to be in a serious relationship. He is a senior in high school and I'm a freshman in college. I tried the no contact rule for 60 days and we both havn't contacted each other and now that the 60 days is over I want to talk to him again but I'm to scared to. I want us to get back together but I want to focus on us talking again so plz help me I miss him a lot.

Approach it like you would an old friend you miss seeing. Start asking them how’s things, eventually the conversation and connection will rebuild. You may not get him back, but if you want to at least have him back in your life you’ve got to be patient. Its going to take a LONG time 

Good luck x

Dating Lesson #16

Don’t settle for someone because its comfortable and easy

Well, it’s true!

Well, it’s true!

Anonymous
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I had dumped my now ex-boyfriend friday, because i liked his bestfriend. Apparently he liked me too, one friend overheard him in a lesson saying he likes me, however im not sure if she’s telling the truth. And my cousin said that everytime he sees her he asks where i am, and not “hey”,and that he’s always talking about me, he also asked her if i liked him on tuesday, she responded “ask her in history”, I wasn’t in history, but he found out off of my “Friend”. i am not asking him if he likes me..

Why don’t you ask? Things are so easily brushed off as a joke in high school. Just say, rumour has it you like me? Would you care to clarify that for me. 

If he says yes - ah winner

If he says no - just brush it off that you were just wondering incase things got awkward

Good luck x